It was during my early 20s when my whole world came crashing down.

I had gone from being a strong, high-functioning, self-sufficient woman who never felt like she needed to ask for help—to a woman stuck in the same cycle of heartbreak, feeling numb, unworthy, and afraid that I would be alone forever.
 

I had convinced myself that I wasn’t meant for safe, steady, soul-deep love.

And then, my biggest wake-up call hit me.
 

Yet another boyfriend had cheated on me. And this time, I couldn’t ignore what was happening—I couldn’t pretend it was bad luck or that maybe this time would be different. Because the truth was, it wasn’t just about this one guy.
 

It was me, repeating the same painful story over and over again.

But as much as I could see the pattern, I couldn’t break it.

And to make it worse? That wasn’t the only thing I was carrying.

I had also suffered a sexual assault.
 

I felt disgusting, broken, and completely lost. I was exhausted—playing the role of the woman who had her life together, but the moment I walked through my front door, I felt lost, ashamed of myself for what I thought I allowed myself to experience, and angry for not being able to break free from this toxic life I felt trapped in.
 

And even though I felt this way, I still ran straight back to my ex.

Because even though I knew he wasn’t good for me, I needed him to love me.

I needed him to choose me. I needed him to make me feel whole again.
 

And eventually, he did. Even though he cheated. Even though he lied to my face.
 

He finally said the words I had been desperate to hear:

"I love you."

And suddenly, I felt whole. Or so I thought.

But what I continued to carry was the weight of shame and self-blame.

And when I finally found the courage to tell him what had happened to me? His response was soul-crushing.
 

"You must have done something to make him think he could do that."
 

And just like that, my shame tripled.

I was already battling the humiliation of being cheated on, the insecurity of never being enough, the devastation of knowing I was replaceable—but this? This made me believe it was all my fault.

So, I let him come and go as he pleased.

Because deep down, I believed I had to earn his love. I believed I had to be chosen over the other woman. I believed I needed to be "better" to deserve loyalty.

And when I looked in the mirror, I no longer saw the woman I used to be.
 

Instead, I saw a woman who:

💔 Hated herself for never being enough.
💔 Carried guilt and shame like a heavy weight on her chest.
💔 Said yes to everything—because saying no felt like the worst thing she could do.
 

I was completely disconnected from myself. In a desperate attempt to prove my worth, to escape the labels and judgments that had been thrown at me, I convinced myself that if I could just be better, he would stay.
 

So, I played the game. I made myself smaller. I let myself be used. I convinced myself that love had to be earned.

My mission in life has shifted.

I didn’t just want to feel good—I wanted to feel whole, safe, and truly free.
I didn’t just want a healthy relationship—I wanted deep, devoted, unwavering love.
I didn’t just want to heal my past—I wanted to rewrite my future.
 

And now, I want to help other women do the same.
 

I became an expert in attachment work, nervous system regulation, CBT therapy, Root Cause Therapy, and NLP.

I became trauma-informed, so I could help women at the deepest level possible.
And now? I’m training in Embodied Processing—because healing isn’t just about understanding your trauma—it’s about releasing it from your body so you can finally be free. 
 

Every woman who steps into my world joins me in my vision—not just to break free from toxic love, unhealthy patterns, and attachment wounds—but to ditch the stigma around sexual trauma, regulate their nervous system, and create the kind of self-worth that is unshakable.
 

Because healing isn’t just about understanding your past—it’s about fully reclaiming your body, your mind, and your love story.
 

This is about safety, liberation, and becoming the strongest, most radiant version of yourself.

So let me ask you…

•  How many times have you told yourself, “I’ll figure it out on my own” while still waking up feeling empty?
   
•  How many times have you given more, hoping it would finally be enough—only to be left feeling unworthy?
   
•  How much longer are you willing to stay stuck in the same painful cycle, hoping love will finally feel safe?
   
•  How many times will you let your past control your present before you finally decide that you deserve better?
   
• Are you truly ready to break free, or are you still convincing yourself that waiting will somehow make it easier?

Because here’s the truth… nothing changes until YOU do.
 

If you are ready to finally let the weight of your past go and reclaim the love, confidence, and peace you’ve always deserved…
 

If you are done waking up with regret and are ready to experience intimacy without guilt, shame, or fear…
 

If you are tired of trying to figure it all out alone and want real, lasting transformation…
 

If you are ready to step into your highest potential and finally BREAK these toxic relationship cycles that leave you feeling broken, drained, and lost…
 

Then now is your time.